Proverbs 31 woman

Its almost 6am, and I haven't been to bed, but this has been on my heart and I need to get it out NOW.

Okay, so when we get married at some stage, if thats what God has called you to, then we want our future Husband/Wife to have stayed pure and to have waited just for us right? Well I know I do!

So I came across this video today that my friend had posted about an hour ago. Watch it then read on... 

So you've got to admit, that is an eye opener right? 

The main message I got out of this is not to tempt our brothers! This past summer I learnt a little of how a guys mind works. Do you know what brain storming is? When you think of one thing which leads to another. 

Okay, now imagine that as the guys brain. A cute girl walks past and you can see that red bra strap with a white tank top, his mind is going to spiral, he is going to start thinking about that bra, maybe with lace on it, then he imagines the girl with just the bra on, no top, then it gets worse and there is no bra. 

You might not even know the boy or what you are putting through his brain, but he is then in the situation where he is looking lustfully upon you. We wonder why Guys have such a distorted image of what their girlfriend should look like. 

So girls, here's what we can do...

Stop wearing those tank tops that you can see through or see your bra straps from.

Perhaps if you want to wear that tank top just take a small paper clip or metal pin and clip your bra straps together so those guys can't see the colour or anything.

Dress modestly, if you do boys will like you for your heart not your body! 

So please help our brothers, lets raise a generation of Proverbs 31 women, not victoria secret models. Lets restore that true image of beauty, and then the divorce rate in society may be lower because relationships won't be entirely based on sexual relationships, but instead, true love!

Please, if you care about the next generation, pass at least this video onto a teenage girl who you care about so that they know not to tempt their brothers :) and thanks for reading!